If you think “all women are terrible drivers” is sexist and oppressive (it is) but you think telling your 5yo kid who can’t find something “he’s having a man’s look” is OK, then you’re part of the problem you double standard having douche bag face. What is this, primary school? Somebody oppressed you once so you have to oppress a man child because that makes it somehow even? Teach the kids to swear, I don’t care… they’ll probably find good use for that someday, but don’t teach them to be the thing you profess to hate most about the world.